A father from Texas wrote to Dear Abby seeking advice on how to handle the situation of his ex-wife not allowing him to spend time with his adult children. His daughter was living in a garage apartment but moved away after getting married, and his other children are in law school and graduate school in different states. When he asked his ex-wife if he could take the children to lunch or dinner during their visit, she refused and stated that since she paid for their flights, she didn’t have to let him see them. Despite feeling upset about this, Abby advised the father to reach out to his children directly instead of going through his ex-wife, as they are adults now and can make their own decisions.
The father also mentioned that his ex-wife owes him money, which makes the situation even more frustrating for him. While his relationship with his ex-wife does not seem amicable, Abby encouraged him to focus on improving the bond with his adult children. While it may be challenging due to the strained relationship with his ex-wife, he should not let that stop him from trying to connect with his children and spend time with them during their visits.
Another reader wrote to Abby about their unique eating habits, where they prefer to eat their meals one item at a time, rather than combining different foods on their plate. Despite feeling comfortable with this eating style, the reader’s friend has started calling them eccentric when they go out for breakfast together. The reader questioned whether they should change the way they eat in public to avoid judgment or continue to eat in a way that makes them comfortable. Abby reassured the reader that it is okay to eat the way they prefer, even if it is unconventional, as long as they are enjoying their food.
Abby shared that she also eats her food one item at a time, including cutting the whites off eggs like the reader does. She expressed solidarity with the reader, suggesting that they may both have their unique quirks when it comes to eating habits, but ultimately, it is their own food and they should be allowed to enjoy it however they like. Embracing one’s individuality and personal preferences, even when it comes to something as simple as eating habits, is important for maintaining comfort and happiness in daily life.
In her closing remarks, Abby extended Easter greetings to her readers, wishing them a meaningful and memorable day. As a symbol of love and positivity, she signed off with warm wishes for the holiday celebration. Dear Abby, also known as Abigail Van Buren, continues to offer advice and guidance to readers on a wide range of topics, providing a listening ear and compassionate perspective to those seeking support and understanding.
