A 63-year-old woman is seeking advice from Dear Abby about her 71-year-old sister, June, who was sexually assaulted by their brother and has not worked since her early 30s. June’s ex-husband recently passed away, and her pension stopped, leaving June unable to pay rent. The younger sister, who is about to retire after working for 48 years, feels that it is not her responsibility to pay June’s rent because she refuses to get a part-time job. Her other sister is pressuring her to help June, despite her reluctance.
Dear Abby advises the woman to schedule a family discussion with her sisters and offer to help June with her rent if she gets a part-time job. The woman should only pay part of the rent if her other sister, Lisa, is willing to split the cost with her. This approach would make it a joint effort among the siblings, rather than placing the burden solely on one sister. By setting this condition, the woman can encourage June to make an effort to help herself while still providing assistance.
In another letter to Dear Abby, a woman expresses her concern about her husband’s nieces and nephews who have stopped participating in the Catholic mealtime prayer before holiday meals. Not only do they refuse to participate, but they also mock and talk during the prayer, which the woman finds disrespectful. She is unsure of how to handle the situation and is seeking advice on how to address their behavior. Dear Abby suggests that the husband or wife should address the nieces and nephews’ behavior after the prayer, emphasizing that their actions are rude and disrespectful.
As Passover approaches, Dear Abby sends her best wishes to her readers who observe this important Jewish holiday. The holiday commemorates the liberation of the Jewish people from slavery in Egypt and is a significant event in Jewish history. Abby extends her warm regards to those celebrating Passover and acknowledges the importance of this holiday in the Jewish faith. The readers are reminded of the historical significance and meaning behind Passover as they prepare to observe and celebrate.
Dear Abby, written by Abigail Van Buren (Jeanne Phillips), provides advice and guidance on various topics and issues raised by readers. Founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips, Dear Abby continues to offer wisdom, support, and solutions to readers seeking help with personal, family, and relationship matters. Readers can reach out to Dear Abby for advice through their website or by contacting them via mail, as the column remains a trusted source of comfort and guidance for those seeking answers to their questions and concerns.
