Seven years after the tragic passing of Kate Spade, Elyce Arons continues to reflect on the profound impact their friendship had on her life. The two met at the University of Kansas in 1981, sharing an unbreakable bond that lasted for nearly four decades. Together, they envisioned and created Kate Spade New York, a brand that revolutionized the accessories market in the 1990s. Their camaraderie deepened during their college years, as they confided in one another about personal tragedies, including the loss of family members, which shaped their understanding of each other and solidified their lifelong friendship.
Arons speaks vividly of Spade’s vibrant spirit, describing her as a mix of fierce loyalty and disarming charm. While Spade appeared to lead a fairytale-like life, her struggles with depression and feelings of isolation were often hidden beneath her sunny exterior. In her new memoir, “We Just Might Make It After All,” Arons candidly shares how their conversations revealed Spade’s ongoing battles with mental health, despite her outward merriment. The shockwaves that followed Spade’s death in 2018 served as a reminder of the complexities that can exist behind a person’s public persona—how great success does not guarantee emotional wellbeing.
The narrative delves into their professional journey, highlighting the inception of Kate Spade New York. Initially, Spade, alongside Arons and their friends, identified a niche in the handbag market and set out to fill it. With their creativity and determination, they launched their first collection using makeshift prototypes, garnering the attention of major retailers. This success, however, came at a cost; as Spade rose to prominence, the pressure of public visibility exacerbated her anxiety, transforming what should have been an exhilarating journey into a source of significant stress.
Even as their careers flourished, Arons and Spade’s friendship experienced its share of highs and lows. They navigated through challenges together, apologizing and making up after disagreements. The bond between them remained steadfast, enriched by shared experiences, laughter, and moments of genuine joy. Their playful pranks and shared memories, including a notable instance where Spade scared Arons with a rubber rat, highlight the warmth and humor that characterized their friendship, transcending the challenges they faced in the fashion industry.
Following the sale of Kate Spade New York, the duo continued their collaboration with the launch of Frances Valentine in 2016. Inspired by their memories and thrifting adventures, they aimed to create quality accessories that captured their playful spirit. This new venture rekindled their creative partnership, bringing excitement back into their lives until Spade’s untimely death. In the wake of the tragedy, Arons carried on Spade’s legacy through Frances Valentine, launching collections that honored their shared history and celebrated Spade’s unique sense of style.
Today, Frances Valentine has expanded into a full apparel line, reflecting the aesthetics that both women cherished. Arons maintains a deep connection to Spade in the fabric of her creations, ensuring that her best friend’s memory lives on in every piece. Through her work, Arons finds fulfillment, holding onto the belief that such extraordinary friendships are rare and invaluable. For those struggling with mental health crises, resources are available to seek help, reminding everyone of the importance of support and connection in navigating life’s challenges.
