In March of 2020, the Covid-19 pandemic began to disrupt life as people knew it. The author of this content was hiking in Joshua Tree at the time, unsure if they should return to New York. Eventually, they did return and began working remotely for The Times. To help people find distraction and comfort during this uncertain time, the author started writing a newsletter called At Home. The newsletter offered recommendations on what to watch, read, cook, listen to, and think about, as well as virtual events to attend. Virtual gatherings became the new norm, with virtual happy hours, Zoom shirts, and seeing colleagues’ bedroom decor on video calls.
During the early days of the pandemic, people focused on coping and finding creativity amidst confusion and sadness. This led to the rise of pandemic pods, sourdough baking, and alfresco dining. People found unique ways to stay connected and engage with others, such as a friend starting a dance troupe that performed on neighbors’ lawns or building a bed in the back of an SUV and traveling across the country. The author also reconnected with old college friends through FaceTime, realizing the ease of staying in touch virtually.
As five years have passed since the start of the pandemic, the author reflects on the changes and lessons learned. They question whether the vows made during lockdown, such as more socializing and dinner parties, have been upheld now that the world has reopened. The author acknowledges the romanticized notions of freedom and future possibilities that arose during lockdown, but also the ease of slipping back into old habits without a plan in place. The desire for more human contact and meaningful connections remains, but the effort required to plan and execute these intentions can be a barrier.
Overall, the pandemic brought about a period of reflection, creativity, and resilience as people navigated the challenges and uncertainties. Virtual connections and events became a lifeline for many, offering a sense of community and support during isolation. As the world gradually reopens, the author emphasizes the importance of consciously choosing to maintain the lessons learned and intentions set during lockdown. Despite the allure of returning to familiar routines, there is a need to prioritize meaningful connections and experiences in a post-pandemic world.
