A study from 1997 published in the Journal of Marriage and Family analyzed data from thousands of married couples to determine the top causes of divorce. The study found six primary reasons for marital breakdown, including infidelity, financial disagreements, substance abuse, jealousy, moodiness, and irritating habits. These issues were found to erode trust, communication, and emotional security within a relationship, making it difficult for couples to maintain a healthy bond.
Infidelity was identified as a significant cause of divorce, with breaches of emotional commitment and integrity undermining the foundation of a marriage. Financial disagreements, particularly irresponsible spending habits, were also cited as a leading cause of marital problems. Substance abuse, including excessive drinking or drug use, was found to strain relationships by altering behavior, impairing judgment, and creating an unsafe environment.
Jealousy, whether stemming from past experiences or current insecurities, was found to poison relationships by fostering mistrust and controlling behaviors. Chronic moodiness or emotional volatility was identified as a source of strain in marriages, leading to frequent conflicts and emotional distancing. Seemingly minor irritating habits or behaviors, such as constant lateness or forgetfulness, could escalate into significant sources of tension if left unaddressed.
Therapy aimed at improving communication, building self-esteem, and fostering trust was recommended to help couples navigate these issues constructively and strengthen their relationship bonds. Addressing problematic habits and behaviors early on could prevent them from becoming entrenched sources of conflict that contribute to marital dissatisfaction and potential divorce. The study’s findings from over twenty years ago are still relevant today, highlighting the ongoing importance of addressing these common relationship challenges.
