DEAR ABBY: The letter writer expresses heartbreak over her daughter Alexa’s decision to forgo several traditional wedding practices that are important to her family. Alexa refuses to wear an engagement ring, have an engagement party, or bridal shower. She also doesn’t want a wedding gown or bridal party, and wants a simple wedding with no reception or other typical festivities. The writer is hurt that her friends are confused about what gifts to give since there is no registry and also feels conflicted about her husband not being able to walk Alexa down the aisle.
DEAR RUINED WEDDING: The response from Dear Abby advises the mother to remember that the wedding belongs to Alexa and her fiance and not to them. It is suggested that the parents can use the money they would have spent on the wedding for a luxurious vacation for themselves. The mother is encouraged to respect her daughter’s wishes and not let the situation cause any rifts in the family.
DEAR ABBY: Another letter writer is concerned about relatives who brought a handgun and ammunition into their home without informing them beforehand. The relatives defend their actions by saying the weapon was locked and the ammunition stored separately. The writer is worried as they have a 7-year-old daughter and questions whether their relatives were in the wrong by not disclosing this information.
The response tells the writer that although the relatives may practice gun safety, it is unacceptable for them to bring a gun into someone else’s home without permission. The writer is advised to have the relatives store the weapon somewhere else, such as in the trunk of their vehicle, if they are unable to find other lodging immediately.
Dear Abby, which is written by Abigail Van Buren (Jeanne Phillips), is a popular advice column that offers guidance on various topics. Founded by her mother, Pauline Phillips, Dear Abby provides helpful advice and perspective on readers’ questions and concerns. Readers can reach out to Dear Abby through their website or mailing address in Los Angeles for advice and support on a wide range of issues.
